FYI it’s not non genders. it’s super simple, even Wikipedia knows what’s up: Non-binary or genderqueer is a spectrum of gender identities that are not exclusively masculine or feminine‍—‌identities that are outside the gender binary. Non-binary identities can fall under the transgender umbrella, since many non-binary people identify with a gender that is different fromContinue reading

My brain is in a really shitty place right now. It’s pretty difficult for me to articulate. The biggest frustration at the moment is I’m lacking joy and focus, I’m incredibly indecisive, and bored out of my mind. A simple temporary solution would be to go get some sleep, but it’s too early for me.Continue reading

If you feel depressed, it’s okay to talk about it. If you feel anxious, it’s okay to talk about it. If you feel lonely, it’s okay to talk about it. If you are struggling with any mental health problems, it’s okay to talk about it.

pretending to care about my pronouns after you’ve intentionally repeatedly misgendered me for months doesn’t make you an ally. it makes you the same shitty person you’ve been all along.

Don’t ever let someone make you feel guilty because they are suffering the consequences of their own actions.

Bell, Let’s Talk

It’s that day the giant blue media monopoly in Canada has branded their day to talk about mental health. I hate that this company touts mental health support while continuing to ignore the mental health needs of their very own employees. We need to talk. It’s okay to not be okay. It’s not okay toContinue reading “Bell, Let’s Talk”

short term guests

Rob and I are hosting my friend from Mixer, Kittie, and her family for a few days while they get settled after their move to the city. I’ve taken some time off work and am excited to help them begin the getting settled process in a new place! Not sure where they’re headed to afterContinue reading “short term guests”

Memories That Never Fade

It’s been eight years, and not a single day goes by that I don’t miss one of the best men I’ve ever had the privilege of knowing (let alone being related to). So much has changed in the time that has elapsed, but it still feels like yesterday. Our memories are fresh in my mind.Continue reading “Memories That Never Fade”